How to Write a Wild Birthday Wish Like Jim Iyke

Jim Iyke’s birthday message to Kate Henshaw reminds us that love between friends doesn’t always sound sweet — sometimes, it’s loud, raw, and real. Here’s how to do it too.
August 4, 2025
12:30 pm

Jim Iyke didn’t send a birthday message,  he sent a monologue. One that shocked fans, made others laugh, and left many wondering whether his Instagram had been hacked.

 

But no, it wasn’t. The Nollywood actor’s loud, profanity-laced message to his longtime friend and colleague Kate Henshaw was exactly the kind of chaos that only deep friendship can explain. It opened with “F**K YOU KATE” in all caps  and spiraled into a deeply personal, hilarious, and oddly tender letter laced with unfiltered honesty, old crushes, years of shared history, and an unexpected dose of social commentary.

 

To the public, it felt like too much. To Henshaw, who acknowledged it with grace and a heart emoji, it was probably just right.

 

So what can the rest of us learn from Jim Iyke’s unhinged but heartfelt message? If you’re trying to write a birthday wish to a close friend that goes beyond generic quotes and emojis, here’s how to channel your inner Jim Iyke — minus (or not) the swearing.

 

  1. Start Loud. Really Loud.
    Begin with a bang. Forget “Happy birthday, dear”  try something that immediately grabs attention. Jim Iyke opened with “F**K YOU KATE,” and while not everyone can (or should) go that far, you can still lead with a cheeky jab, nickname, or inside joke. It sets the tone.

“You absolute menace. Another year older and still finer than a Swan!”

 

  1. Bring Up the Past — The Good, The Bad, and the Slightly Embarrassing
    Jim took us back to his 23-year-old self, confessed an old crush, and mentioned small acts of kindness like Kate slipping him transport fare. His message came from real shared experiences , not just vibes.

Think of a time they came through for you, or something ridiculous you did together. Nostalgia adds depth  even in chaos.

 

  1. Be Brutally Honest (With Love)
    Jim wasn’t afraid to admit things: how he felt, how he messed up, how he still cares. Vulnerability in the middle of a wild message makes it memorable  and real.

“I was broke, clueless, and all over the place — and you still treated me like royalty. I’ll never forget.”

 

Jim Iyke

 

  1. Add Absurd Compliments
    What’s a birthday without over-the-top praise? Jim went poetic (and dramatic):

“You’ve caused hysteria, depression, anxiety, admiration, love, hate… a spectrum of human sentiments!”

Push it. Call them a national treasure. Say Beyoncé studies them. Go big.

 

  1. Roast Them — Gently
    This part is key. Only people you really love can get away with insults wrapped in affection. Jim kept yelling “F**K YOU KATE,” but each time, the message behind it was one of respect and admiration.

“You drive me crazy and I can’t stand you — but life would be boring without you.”

 

  1. End With a Signature Send-Off
    Jim signed off with “Your wild boy loves you!” and a string of affirmations. Create your own signature   something playful but meaningful.

“Forever your chaotic queen. Love you deep!”

 

In the end, Jim Iyke’s birthday tribute was less about scandal and more about unfiltered love — the kind that defies neat captions. His post reminded us that friendships aren’t always prim and proper. They’re messy, layered, and full of history  and sometimes, the best birthday wishes reflect that.

 

So, next time you’re writing to someone who’s been in your corner through the years, skip the Hallmark fluff. Say it loud, say it real — say it like Jim.

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