Parenthood is deeply personal, with no two experiences being exactly alike. Still, surrounding yourself with support and positive influences can make the process less daunting. That’s why it’s refreshing to see Nollywood actors like Stan and Blessing Nze, Linda Ejiofor and Ibrahim Suleiman, Adesua Etomi-Wellington, Bisola Aiyeola, Toke Makinwa, and Funke Akindele open up about their parenting journeys. Some, like the Nzes, even share their experiences through family vlogs on YouTube.
And it’s not just the mothers. Actors like Tobi Bakre and Kunle Remi are redefining fatherhood, showing that raising children is a shared responsibility and that being a present parent matters.
Here are a few lessons we can draw from these stars as a guide for both expecting and new parents:
Be prepared
Parenthood comes with challenges that no manual can fully prepare you for — from sleepless nights to constant feedings and managing your own emotions. The key is to stay ready for whatever the journey brings while giving yourself grace to learn along the way.
Build your support system
As the saying goes, it takes a village to raise a child. Surround yourself with friends, family, or community members you can rely on. Many Nollywood parents maintain strong friendships that double as a support network, as seen when Bisola Aiyeola celebrated with fellow actor-parents at their children’s events.
Be ready to sacrifice
Parenting often means adjusting your priorities. Some actors have taken breaks from their careers to focus on their families, while others, like Kunle Remi, share tips on how they’ve learned to soothe and bond with their babies. Sacrifices, big or small, are part of the process.
Make memories
From birthdays to simple family moments, creating lasting memories is one of the joys of parenting. Many celebrities share family photoshoots or milestone celebrations, offering ideas and inspiration for making those moments special.
Don’t forget yourself
Parenthood can be all-consuming, but self-care is essential. Looking after your physical and mental health ensures you’re in the best position to care for your child — a balance Nollywood stars also emphasize while managing their careers.
At the end of the day, there’s no perfect way to parent. What matters is being willing to learn, adapt, and show up for your child every day.